Just fantasies

[SexySamurai]

I've always dreamed of playing a tough samurai and his innocent little girl. This is so exciting!..
I have many dreams, but most of all I like to feel a vivid combination of brute strength and defenselessness...

 

[don_jetman]

I used to think it odd that one could entertain such opposite fantasies at the same time. But my wife is very much like you - she considers herself to be a feminist and a strong, independent woman most of the time, but has extreme submissive "innocent little girl" fantasies as well. I rarely know which she'll be when we role play. Seeing her switch from one to the other has always been exciting for me. She can play the unapologetic cuckoldress one time, and then the submissive wife to her Dom the next. We've role played for so many years that my genuine angst is minimal, but the surprise and confusion she can amp it up a bit, which keeps things spicy.

Do you tend to play out either part separately on different occasions, or is it more of a regular mix of emotions for you? Maybe the strong Samurai who meets her match and is conquered by him? Interesting stuff I'd love to explore.

 

[SexySamurai]

Don, I am so glad to meet you here - everything you write about is very-very close to me.

I have to say that I’m just starting to open myself up - thanks to my new boyfriend, with whom I feel so good every time... Therefore, your amazing and perfect experience with your wife (especially for a beginner like me) helps me a lot to feel and understand myself better.

In life, I am an independent calm girl who relies only on herself and likes to be stronger or cooler than the guys around. But with D., I suddenly felt that I could show myself on the other side - an innocent girl who is happy to serve her master... This is an amazing sensation for me, previously inaccessible - before that I did not want to feel weak and submissive with anyone in my private life. Because for me this is about complete openness and 100% trust in my partner.

Reading your answer, I want to say that now (when I am surprised to see how my fantasies suddenly began to become reality) I Really like to feel this contrast for both sides. When I get weaker, I feel the growing strength of D., and it turns me on, so that I forget about everything and just live every moment with him, with such a strong and sexy man.

I am happy to express myself in a different way whenever possible.

It is So pleasant...

But it is even more pleasant from this gentle state to feel his masculinity and brutality, real masculine strength - never in my life have I had such sensations. It's a cosmic pleasure...

Now I see that both of us, me and D., can be both gentle and submissive, as well as strong and dominant. But when we are together, I feel in myself only a weak innocent side mostly - probably because for too many years I was strong and independent so I got enough experience.

So now I just drink that contrast feelings and live by this...

 

[SexySamurai]

Don, I thought about your questions. You know, usually I felt like a battle winner with men... But this time I surrendered without a fight, and more happy then if I would win. Even cannot compare, so large difference...

Each new recognition of personality, body and inner world of D. makes a strong Samurai more and more open and vulnerable. So I want to take off all the armor that protected me from the people of this world, and I do this every time we are together. I Ithink that Samurai still remains in me as a part of my personality when we together, but this is his anoyher side, homely and cozy.

I am not acting now because I just turn off my brain to get my essence chance to be opened. So usually I am just me, when we are alone.

I see I still haven't complete answer for you because my way is begginingnow. I will explore. This is really exciting research, and I love it.

 

[don_jetman]

There are some parallels between our relationships, SS. When we met years ago, my wife (then girlfriend, then fiance) was innocent and girly. She had never had sex before me, and it took quite a while to win her trust and confidence. As our relationship matured, we were married and found careers. L was very driven in college, always obsessed with making top grades. Later, she became driven and more controlling, both at home and at work as she climbed the corporate ladder. She's now a very successful manager and proud of her accomplishments. But after a few years of marriage, when I confessed my hotwife fantasies, she began to reveal she had her own secret submissive fantasies - not at all what I expected. Today she lives with two very opposite personal motivations - one to be successful at work, and another to satisfy her submissive sexual appetites. She needs to be strong and in control much of the time, but there is always the "innocent little girl" underneath struggling to escape and become the "bad girl" of her fantasies. As a man, I may never completely understand the "why" behind a woman's desires, but I have become familiar enough to be sympathetic to them. Life's a struggle, but you will find your way.

Sexy Samurai
alone in the winter wind
her spring will blossom

 

[SexySamurai]

Today she lives with two very opposite personal motivations - one to be successful at work, and another to satisfy her submissive sexual appetites.

Wow, this is 100% how I am living: hard successful work with growing skills/salary/etc (since my youth till eternity) + sudden submissive needs (inaccessible to me for many years so I was surprised to meet them with my boyfriend). As for me, this is very interesting combination because it allows to live different lifes and improve myself in different directions. Therefore life becomes more colorful, deeper and gives a really big pleasure (+ not boring). Also such amazing & a rary type of person always attracts me, because this is the great way to communication with mutual understanding, such conversation gives a real pleasure.

Don, your hokku fully expresses my life. Really unexpected+amazing to get it here. I am touched, thank you.

 

[Seekerofpleasure]

Don, I am so glad to meet you here - everything you write about is very-very close to me.

I have to say that I’m just starting to open myself up - thanks to my new boyfriend, with whom I feel so good every time... Therefore, your amazing and perfect experience with your wife (especially for a beginner like me) helps me a lot to feel and understand myself better.

In life, I am an independent calm girl who relies only on herself and likes to be stronger or cooler than the guys around. But with D., I suddenly felt that I could show myself on the other side - an innocent girl who is happy to serve her master... This is an amazing sensation for me, previously inaccessible - before that I did not want to feel weak and submissive with anyone in my private life. Because for me this is about complete openness and 100% trust in my partner.

Reading your answer, I want to say that now (when I am surprised to see how my fantasies suddenly began to become reality) I Really like to feel this contrast for both sides. When I get weaker, I feel the growing strength of D., and it turns me on, so that I forget about everything and just live every moment with him, with such a strong and sexy man.

I am happy to express myself in a different way whenever possible.

It is So pleasant...

But it is even more pleasant from this gentle state to feel his masculinity and brutality, real masculine strength - never in my life have I had such sensations. It's a cosmic pleasure...

Now I see that both of us, me and D., can be both gentle and submissive, as well as strong and dominant. But when we are together, I feel in myself only a weak innocent side mostly - probably because for too many years I was strong and independent so I got enough experience.

So now I just drink that contrast feelings and live by this...

Beautiful